Welcome

I’m Natasha Kutzke, LMFT,
I provide individual and couples sex therapy for people healing from CPTSD, sexual shame, and relational disconnection. My approach is trauma-informed, body-positive, queer-affirming, and poly-friendly, with a focus on safety, curiosity, and compassion.

Serving multiple Locations:

Oregon – All Virtual
I offer telehealth therapy for clients throughout Oregon, providing trauma-informed sex therapy and CPTSD support from the comfort and privacy of your home.

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Minnesota – Virtual or In-Person
I offer therapy for Minnesota clients either in-person in downtown Fergus Falls or via telehealth statewide. Sessions focus on healing trauma, improving intimacy, and reclaiming your authentic sexual self.

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Who I Work With

  • Individuals and couples navigating sexual shame, intimacy struggles, or desire differences.

  • Survivors of CPTSD, religious trauma, or abusive relationships

  • LGBTQIA+ and polyamorous clients working on identity

  • People seeking body-positive, Health at Every Size (HAES)-aligned therapy

  • Neurodivergent clients: While I am neurotypical, my immediate family is neurodivergent in various ways, and a large percentage of my clientele is autistic, ADHD, or a combination. I create an affirming space to explore how your neurodivergence has influenced your life, whether you’ve known for a long or short time, and we focus on using your unique strengths to create a life that is authentic and supportive of your needs.

My Approach

I integrate evidence-based therapies that meet you where you are:

  • IFS (Internal Family Systems) – identify and care for protective and wounded parts

  • EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy) – build secure emotional bonds in relationships

  • Narrative Therapy – reframe harmful stories and reclaim your voice

  • Somatic Practices – bring healing and safety back into your body

A Little About Me

I grew up in Oregon and recently moved to Fergus Falls, Minnesota to live a slower life and be closer to my partner’s family. My personal journey deeply informs my work: I was raised in an abusive patriarchal religious home, where I wasn’t free to live authentically. That upbringing led to perfectionism and people-pleasing, and my sexuality was silenced and shamed.

Healing my own trauma allowed me to reclaim my sexual self — and inspired me to help others do the same. I bring this focus into my work with individuals and couples, helping clients understand how their childhood experiences shape their relationships, sexuality, and intimacy. Using IFS and EFT, we track the parts of yourself that react to and create reactions within partnerships, so you can cultivate safety, authenticity, and connection.

My interests include:

  • Spending time with my many animals: dogs, a cat, bunnies, and fish

  • Being in nature, especially around water

  • Expressing creativity through painting, drawing, and sculpting

  • Spending time with my husband and two daughters

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Therapy with me is about more than symptom relief — it’s about reclaiming your authentic self, building safety, and deepening intimacy.

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