Resource Library
Explore books on relationships, sexuality, trauma, parenting, neurodivergence, and more.
Sexuality & Sex Education
Come As You Are – Nagoski
Science-based approach to women’s sexuality, desire, and arousal.Come Together: The Science (and Art) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections - Nagoski
Explores evidence-based strategies for building fulfilling and enduring sexual intimacy.Guide to Getting It On – Joannides
Comprehensive, inclusive sex manual covering intimacy, pleasure, and communication.Sex Matters for Women – Foley, Kope, Sugrue
Evidence-based guide to women’s sexual health.What Turns You On Workbook
Exercises to explore sexual desire and arousal.Tongue Tied – Stella Harris
Guide on communication, intimacy, and sexual skills.Better Sex Through Mindfulness- Weiner, Avery-Clark
Techniques for enhancing sexual connection and presence.
Body Positivity & Self-Acceptance
Every Body Shines-Newbould
Anthology of essays celebrating plus-size bodies and self-acceptance.
Polyamory & Nonmonogamy
Opening Up – Dossie Taormino
Practical guide to navigating consensual nonmonogamy.More Than Two – Veaux & Rickert
Widely used polyamory guide focused on ethics and relationship skills.Polysecure – Fern
Integrates attachment theory with nonmonogamous relationships, offering tools for security and connection.Polywise – Fern & Ferraioli
Companion to Polysecure, with practical strategies for thriving in polyamorous relationships.The Ethical Slut – Easton & Hardy
Classic book on open relationships, polyamory, and sexual freedom.Rewriting the Rules – Meg Barker
Challenges traditional relationship norms and offers frameworks for creating authentic connections.The State of Affairs – Perel
Exploration of infidelity, its meaning, and healing opportunities.Mating in Captivity – Perel
Examines sustaining desire in long-term relationships.
Trans, Kink, & BDSM Sex
Trans+: Love, Sex, Romance, and Being You – Gonzales & Rayne
Inclusive guide for transgender and nonbinary adults navigating relationships and intimacy.The New Topping Book- Easton & Hardy
Guide on topping in kink and BDSM relationships.The New Bottoming Book - Easton & Hardy
Guide on bottoming in kink and BDSM relationships.Delusions of Gender – Fine
Debunks myths about brain-based gender differences.
Trauma, Healing & Mental Health
The Developing Mind – Siegel
How relationships and neuroscience shape the developing brain.The Body Keeps the Score – van der Kolk
Seminal work on trauma, the body, and healing modalities.Trauma and Recovery – Herman
Foundational book on trauma, PTSD, and recovery frameworks.The Politics of Trauma – Haines
Connects trauma healing with social justice and systemic oppression.Healing Sex – Haines
Guide for survivors of sexual trauma reclaiming sexuality and intimacy.No Bad Parts – Richard C. Schwartz
Introduction to Internal Family Systems (IFS) and self-compassion.Greater Than the Sum of Our Parts – Richard C. Schwartz
Deep dive into IFS and understanding internal multiplicity.Dancing with Fear – Foxman
Self-help guide on anxiety and building resilience.
Parenting & Child Development
Parenting from the Inside Out – Siegel & Hartzell
Links parent self-awareness with secure child attachment.No-Drama Discipline – Siegel & Payne Bryson
Parenting strategies linking brain science with behavior management.The Worried Child – Foxman
Guide for helping anxious children.The Mother Dance – Lerner
Explores the psychology of motherhood and identity shifts.
Love, Relationships & Marriage
Hold Me Tight – Johnson
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) guide for couples.After the Affair – Spring
Guidance on healing and rebuilding after infidelity.I Love You but I Don’t Trust You – Kirshenbaum
Likely focused on trust issues and repair in relationships.Daring Greatly – Brown
On vulnerability, shame, and wholehearted living.All About Love – hooks
Philosophical and cultural exploration of love as a transformative force.Attached – Levine & Heller
Accessible book explaining attachment theory in romantic relationships.
Domestic & Life Skills
Fair Play Deck – Rodsky
Card-based tool for dividing household labor equitably.Fair Play – Rodsky
Framework for balancing domestic responsibilities and mental load.How to Keep House While Drowning – KC Davis
Tips for managing home, mental load, and overwhelm.
Neurodivergence & Executive Function
The Book of Happy, Positive, and Confident Sex for Adults on the Autism Spectrum and Beyond! – Carley
Sexuality guide for autistic and neurodivergent adults.ADHD After Dark – Tuckman
Understanding how ADHD impacts sex and relationships.How to ADHD – Jessica McCabe
Practical strategies and resources for managing ADHD.You’re Not Broken – Laura K. Anderson
Guidance for neurodivergent adults reclaiming self-acceptance and well-being.
Social Justice & Race
The Unapologetic Guide to Black Mental Health – Walker
Focused on mental health access and healing for Black communities.White Fragility – DiAngelo
Examines defensiveness and racial bias in white people.Waking Up White – Irving
Memoir exploring white privilege and racial identity.